I think that is posible to love different parthers in a life time and you can love each and everyone of them with all you've got, though in extremely different ways.
There are ones that you thought you might've love, but it was all infatuation, some others pure inocense and unexperience but there are others that you are going to love so deeply and honestly that they are going to make an enormous impact in your life and they might leave you a scar or two along the way and break your heart a little.
Some might say.. well, if they loved you so much why would they hurt you?
My aswer for that is that when we really love; that's when it hurts the most because you care about it. We dont belong to people for ever, we can just borrow them for the amount of time that life decides that they're good for us, cause if we break-up and never come back, sooner or later you'll get throught it and the time that it takes to recover from a heart-break depends only on how strong we can be to deal with the truth and learn to depend on no-one but ourselves to be happy.
My aswer for that is that when we really love; that's when it hurts the most because you care about it. We dont belong to people for ever, we can just borrow them for the amount of time that life decides that they're good for us, cause if we break-up and never come back, sooner or later you'll get throught it and the time that it takes to recover from a heart-break depends only on how strong we can be to deal with the truth and learn to depend on no-one but ourselves to be happy.
Ayway... those that you'll always remeber and carry with you; either you love them or hate them to death; they're all going to be different and they're going to teach you something so important that you'll never forget or do again and if you do so life will teach you another lesson.
The last person I loved changed my whole life around and taught me so much about me and others. I did things that I'd I always wanted to do with somebody, so many memories, good times, bad times, happy times, sad ones too, support, fun, romance, special and unforgetable moments, ilussions, passionate sex and great friendship. I loved so much, I gave even more, was loved so deply and alot in return, that's why it hurts like it never did before.
Sometimes we don't want to face the fact that when is over is really over, and we have to let go. I know I get through it; I always do! In the mean time, I'll only have to take it step by step so my heart can reach its normal pace and I'll be fine in no time.
I've learned lots of things from that experience and that will make me stronger, wiser, more careful and smarter. While I get there, well... I'll have to remember that I have my family, great friends and people that love me and most important I have me and no-one can take that away from me, because every passing minute is a chance to turn it all arround.
I've learned lots of things from that experience and that will make me stronger, wiser, more careful and smarter. While I get there, well... I'll have to remember that I have my family, great friends and people that love me and most important I have me and no-one can take that away from me, because every passing minute is a chance to turn it all arround.
My dear lover ... I love you and I know that I always will; but that doesn't mean that I won't get over you 'cause I will. I just wish you the best, I really want you to be happy and I hope that you find what you're looking for.
Advices:
Dont be afraid to be who you are, stand up for yourself and for what you believe is good for you and if it makes you happy it doesn't matter what others tell you.
Dont be afraid to be who you are, stand up for yourself and for what you believe is good for you and if it makes you happy it doesn't matter what others tell you.
Don't deny your feelings,don't be afraid to give and receive, enjoy every day as if it was the last one because one of these days it'll BE.
Don't let the past ruin your future and don't deliver so fast in your dessisions if you are not sure of what you're doing take your time; cause otherwise you'll regreat it later! Just follow your heart every-time!
Thank you for every single minute that you spent and shared with me!!!
JPablo Marín B.
7/26/08
